Separating on the Holidays

I did learn a valuable lesson about being nice to him. He will never change. I will not keep the children from him, but we will need to start separating the holidays a bit. I do not want him to think that our new home is also his. I know that may sound harsh but separation and divorce happen for a reason. We can not get along. And I want to move on and up with my life.

Case in point. This week he had a major issue in his life that he stated he would update me on as soon as he found out something. He did not until I called and he stated he had known all day. Just another way for him to control things.

I want us to be happy and to have a really great life, us is me and the girls. He can have his great life with them also, when they are with him.

The Holidays are a wonderful time of year and a lonely time of year, but I am ok with it this year.